For the Beginner:
If offended, do not react.
Player may craft a brilliantly sarcastic email, but may not click "send."
Player may not use masterful verbiage to put the offender in his place. To do so will immediately disqualify the player.
Player must be genuinely kind to the offender, behaving as though the offense never occured.
Player may not casually mention the offense to team members.
Player must be willing to take the initiative in seeking restoration.
Player may not require confession or owning of the mistake before forgiveness occurs.
Player must be willing to appear foolish enough to believe excuses and accept denials, and dumb enough to remain mute.
Player must pray fervently and sincerely for a blessing on the head of the offender.
Player must esteem the offender as better than herself.
Player must actively seek out opportunities to bless the offender.
Player must love and cherish the offender as one of her own team members.
Player must let the offender win.
(I wished I'd read the rules before I bought the game.)
If anyone competes,...he is not crowned unless he competes according to the rules. II Tim. 2:5